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EMDR: A Talk Less, Process More, Approach to Healing Trauma

EMDR: A Talk Less, Process More, Approach to Healing Trauma

Imagine visiting a mental health professional for trauma symptoms after a car accident, sexual assault, robbery, job loss, return from military combat, or even an animal attack. Your counselor suggests that you may benefit from Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing therapy (EMDR). You are desperate for relief and agree to the treatment without hesitation.

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Believe and Overcoming the Impossible

Believe and Overcoming the Impossible

Imagine all the positive and incredible things we can achieve in this life if we allow ourselves to work through and modify the negative limits and boundaries that we set on ourselves. Now, I’m not saying that having some of those limits and restrictions in life is always a bad thing, because I do know that they can help keep and maintain our lives in peace and order.

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Owning your Emotions & Triggers

Owning your Emotions & Triggers

How many times have you heard someone say to you, ‘You made me feel ___ ?’ Or have you ever recognized yourself saying it to someone else?  What’s wrong with this statement?  Let’s identify the blame that inherently...

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What Every Couple Needs to Know

What Every Couple Needs to Know

“We’re not who we used to be… we’re just two ghosts standing in place of you and me,” sings Harry Styles, describing in aching tones what it’s like to be with your lover and feel as though you don’t even know them anymore.

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Change Your Thoughts and Your Thoughts Will Change You

Change Your Thoughts and Your Thoughts Will Change You

Have you ever sent a friend a text and didn’t hear back so you wondered if you were being snubbed or ignored? That’s your brain telling you a story, trying to make sense of your situation. Your brain could have said, They care about me, so they must be busy. But brains generally assume the worst. Why? Because over time our brains evolved to keep us safe by looking for danger. The second we catch a whiff of uncertainty or something triggers a….

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Stop Playing the Game of Relational Jumanji

Stop Playing the Game of Relational Jumanji

Stop playing the game of relational Jumanji. Find more peace in your relationships with this solution! Recently I came across a book that changed the way I view relationships. It spoke of something called, The Drama Triangle. This concept was first described by...

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